5 Tips for Parents of Struggling Readers

Your normally happy-go-lucky child who was curious about everything, eager to learn new things and enjoyed you reading to him suddenly has become moody, wants nothing to do with books and doesn’t want to go to school. As a concerned parent you ask your child what is wrong. As a typical response the child tells you “nothing”. Instinctively you know this avoidance response is not the case. Something has changed and not for the better. All too often however this is a familiar scenario that many parents face. So just what should you do when confronted with a similar situation? Here are 5 Tips for Parents of Struggling Readers that will help you and your child get back on the right track to become a successful reader.

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5 Tips for Parents of Struggling Readers

Your child’s welfare is your top priority as a parent. You want to help your child succeed in all aspects. Here is a list of suggestions for you to follow if you think that your child may be struggling with reading.

1.    Ask for a Parent-Teacher Conference – Make a call to your child’s school and schedule a conference to be held with the teacher.

  • Ask the teacher if she has noticed any changes in your child’s behavior when it comes to reading.
  • Listen to what the teacher has to say about patterns that your child is showing and what skills they may be lacking.
  • Find out if the child has missed solid reading foundations such as phonemic awareness or phonics.

2.    Request Assessments – Determine if there are any limitations that may be hindering your child’s development.

  • Have your child’s eyesight and hearing tested yearly.
  • Decide after talking with the teacher if further educational or psychological testing needs to be completed to determine if a learning disability exists.
  • Discuss the options for your child if it is determined that a disability is apparent.

3.    Build Up Your Child’ Self Esteem – Children who are struggling readers often have low self esteem. Many have been teased about being lazy or stupid.

  • Encourage your child by letting them know that having reading problems has nothing to do with their intelligence.
  • Each child has their own learning styles and gathers information in their own way.
  • Tell your child that just because they may learn differently than others this is not a bad thing; they are unique and have to be taught the way their brain learns.

4.    Know Your Child’s Interest – As a parent you know what your child is interested in.

  • Surround your child with books, magazines, games and puzzles that include these interests.
  • Go to the local library and let them get their own library card to pick out books on subjects they like.
  • Search the web to discover other information on the topics at hand.
  • Head to a museum that tells the history of what they are interested in.
  • Engage them in hands on experiences of their interests.

5.    Practice Makes Perfect – Have your child practice reading 30 minutes a day, every day.

  • Allow them to pick what it is that they will be reading based on their interests.
  • Create a comfortable area in your home set aside for reading without distractions.
  • Be available to answer any questions that your child may have when they are reading.
  • Be a role model as a parent by taking this same time to read something of your own interest; showing your child that reading is important to you too.

You know as a parent that you have your child’s best interests in mind. You want to give them all the encouragement and advantages necessary for them to succeed in life. Following these 5 Tips for Parents of Struggling Readers gives you suggestions on how to ensure that your child will get back on track and rediscover their love of learning.

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4 comments to 5 Tips for Parents of Struggling Readers

  • cj

    I can agree with you that with some children you need to build up to half an hour a day for sit down reading time. Attention spans for little ones and those that are struggling readers vary so you have to play it by ear. Follow their lead, if they get too distracted try another learning activity such as a rhyme game or puzzle.

    I think it is wonderful how closely you worked with your granddaughter and how well it paid off for her. She seems to have gathered a great love of learning which is an ultimate goal. Good for her and thanks to Granny! You’ve built lasting memories with her and I am sure she does appreciate all the love and caring you send her way.

    Thanks again for stopping by and including your comments, we appreciate it greatly!

    Blessings,
    Christine

  • These are excellent suggestions, but half an hour a day can be too much for beginning readers who struggle with reading. I have a very bright granddaughter who has some learning disabilities. When I sat down to read with her, she twisted and groaned. I realized that the process of reading was actually painful for her. We shortened the time we read together, and I used strategies like alternating pages–I would read a page, she would read a page.

    My granddaughter is now 12 and quite a good reader. She has found several series that she enjoys, and she devours each new release in record time.

  • cj

    First let me say thank you for visiting our site.
    We are dedicated to assisting parents to help their children with improving their reading skills.
    The story of your life and your history as a reluctant reader gives hope and inspiration.
    I am very curious about the books that you have written and will have to find out more.
    Hmm, perhaps there will be a book review to follow in the near future for our readers of this site.

    Blessings,
    CJ

  • It’s so important to draw attention to reading, and attract reluctant readers to it, especially boys.

    I grew up as a reluctant reader, in spite of the fact that my father published over 70 books. Now I write action-adventures & mysteries, especially for tween boys, that avid boy readers and girls enjoy just as much.

    My blog, Books for Boys http://booksandboys.blogspot.com is dedicated to drawing attention to the importance of reading. And my new book, Lost Island Smugglers – first in the Sam Cooper Adventure Series – is coming out in August. .

    Max Elliot Anderson
    PS. My first 7 books are going to be republished by Comfort Publishing later in 2010

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